I can recommend you some schools, are you planning to do your training in Texas? Regarding funding, are you planning to go to college or are you looking towards loans?
I wrote a blog the other day about an alternative way to fund helicopter flight training, here's the link : www.rotorspace.com/RotorSpace/blog/4/
I can't help with schools but financially, I've had to bite the bullet and took out a $55,000 loan to get it all over and done with. I've chosen the correspondence course because it'll force me to study everything and not just what's in the exams. I find the correspondence course is also more cost effective.
If I can think of anything else, I'll put it up.
Good luck with it!
Brett